I’m not quite sure how to explain
my experience or reaction after reading “When It Changed” because everything
came so unexpected to me. While reading this story it seems that men are the
dominant one and women are not. The men try to come in and take over and rule
their world, when the women are doing perfectly fine without them. Who cares
about the society norm, if a women wants to be in charge she should be allowed
to. I like how “When It Changed” is different from other stories. These women
don’t believe in having men around, hence they consider them aliens, but also
they depend on one another. The women of this planet know what they are doing
and how to keep their world running smoothly. They have figured out ways to
reproduce without using men, they raise their children just as they would if
there were a man in the house, and they don’t care about the society norm.
Because these women took control and believed in one another, made this story
interesting to me, I like how it was not original and reminded me that there is
no norm, we can do whatever the hell we want (well kind of).
Anyways, when the men come to their
world and try to tell them that they need to have men in their lives, and need
to reproduce the right way, it made me angry. No woman needs a man in her life,
especially the women of Whileaway, because they have gone almost 30 generations
without them. Needless to say this story at times did make me feel a little
uncomfortable, but I liked it at the same time. It made me think outside the
box more, and I wasn’t so quick to judge the women, because they had good
morals and were happy with their way of living. Other stories that we have read
these past weeks were just as good and interesting to me, especially “The Fact
of Blackness”. Let me tell you, talking about that in class, was a bit weird to
me. “When It Changed” for some reason just grabbed my attention the most, and
changed my outlook on certain things.